Confusion Conversation & Decision Yesterday, I suddenly had an idea of asking my bf to joined in the reunion dinner. Reason is because there are only 3 people gonna participate in this reunion dinner. I have a small family of 3 person - my dad, my brother and me. My mum passed away few years ago. Before asking, I seek some advise from friends and cousins. Some say its a good idea, some say no as reunion dinner is for families. Since that I'm not yet married to him, so he still consider as outside people. Chinese believes are like this. But, majority tells me to try and ask. I went home around 8pm, waiting for my dad to come back from church before asking. Here are the conversation: Me : "Tomorrow, I invite my friend come for dinner, can or not. Since he got give something" Dad : "Your dog looks more skinny now" Anyone can guess what I feel?? Inside, I was like .. ggrrrrrrr.. Then, my dad continue with the dog talking.... Today, after asking some more advice,...
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Traditional Chinese Wedding Last Saturday, 2-Feb-08, I joined in to my cousin's wedding. Becoming one of the helper, I wake up at 5.30am in the morning, and reach her house before 6.30am. She is still sitting in front of the mirror, being make up by the make up artist. One videographer is standing there, taking videos of the day. My uncles offer ask some 'kueh' as breakfast but I could hardly have any appetite to eat anything.. Hehehe, so he make milo for me. As I don't know how to drink hot milo, again, I bothered him and ask for ice. So, hehe, yaya, I know.. Milo peng at 6.30 in the morning!!! Again, no photos of the kueh as I'm too sleepy to think about taking any photos.. Hehehe..... Then, the match maker ask us to take out and get ready everything that need to be sent over to the groom's house. I took some of the photos. It include a knapsack with jewelry, clothing and 2 white cloth (not sure what is the meaning of the white cloth), a decoration with a hens...
Second Meet Up with Daddy Yesterday marks the second time my dad met my bf. Well, my bf planned to come at 7.30pm but end up 8pm. It is pretty late as my dad use to watch tv in his room after 8pm. OK, here it goes. My bf came in and he sits down. We only watch tv and sit in the living. I felt less stress and better than the first time. Hehehe.. But my bf says he fells awkwards as he suddenly comes to my house. However, I don't feel that it is weird. What do you think ? We sit for about 1 hours. The first time he came, he only sit for 30 minutes. Hehehe, I didn't felt the time past actually and my dad seem ok with him there. The 'Chin' family never talks much when someone came but will comment negatively if the person makes them feel not good. So, I think, my bf pass the second round too. Hehehehe.... My bf felt that I should tell my dad that I am close with him, something like a good friend, etc.. But my opinion is for my dad to realize it himself and asked me. If he as...
The Signs and Wonders - Miracles Do Happen I guess some of you wonders what am I trying to say here.. Suddenly, something strikes me when I answer the tagged by JenJen .. I stopped in the questions of what I love to hear... indeed I really do loves the angel singing.. Angel... Yeah!! You heard me right !!! ANGEL... A REAL ANGEL !! Surprise?? Confuse?? Hhmmm, let me elaborate more .. I am about 14 years old back when this happens .. Each time finishing the 1pm class, I heard people singing and praising from the hall. One day, I took a step into the hall and was amazed and felt very much 'lighter'. From then on, I continue when for the praise and worship in my school. Each year, there are a camping or camp set up in Lundu, Siar Beach. I know that my parents won't allow me to go but still, I talked to them, asking for permission. Amazingly, the say "OK". It's just one time trial and they let me go.. So, I signed up and joined the 4 days, 3 nights camp. We reach L...
What I love & What I Hate JenJen tagged me with What I Love and Hate tag. 1). I love to eat; SUSHI!!.. Also like to eat seafood, claypot rice, malichai, and a lot more... my list can continue till next yr..hehehehe 2). I hate to eat; waiiitt..let me think .. errrmmmm....i hate pahit food, ka chang ma, lui cha (although I'm hakka), and the green rumput people use to put on top when you order kolo mee or whatever mee or porridge... YUCK!!!! 1). I love to go on; a vacation where I'm out somewhere, lying down, feeling the cooling weather while hearing the sound of the sea, and hopefully sound of orcas or dolphins.. yeah, I like to dream.... 2). I hate to go on; SUNDAY market!! the people they always step on my feet!! Am I that short that nobody can see me??? ggrrrrrrrrrr .... 1). I love it when; I can sleep one whole day and wake up, only watching the movies I like with ice creams and junk food on my bed and with my bf lying there for me to bully.. kekekkee... 2). I hate it wh...