Dating and Courting Stage - Do and Don'ts (Part 2)
Hhmmm... What should I write now. I agree with my friend that a guy should be honest and be natural. That's what I mean by be himself. If that it happens that the guy try to make himself to be a guy that the girl wants, eventually, it won't happen. Unless the guy wants to lie to himself for the rest of his life, else just be natural. That's the best thing.
I realize that many looks for a partner that are good looking, rich, famous and popular and maybe a person that have everything. For me, choosing the right one is not choosing what that person have physically but what he got in him.
Someone ever told me this. Find someone that match your own character. If you are stingy, look for someone that is stingy. If you are honest and feels that honesty is number one, then find someone who thinks this way. A friend of mine ever say this to me too. If you are fire, find someone who is water. This simply means, if you are bad temper, find someone who are patient. This is very true. You can't put down a fire using fire but water. I always believe we all are born with the other person. We will always be searching for the one. Just that, we must remember not always finding the correct one, but finding the one that we feels comfortable with.
One more advice is we must learn to let go. If it is yours, it will be yours. If it is not yours, no matter what you do, it will not be yours. Let go when the person you loves don't loves you back. If she returns, she is meant for you. If she don't, then you save yourself the time you waste on the girls. Hehehe ... sound familiar right? But that's the facts.....
Ok lar, that's all about relationship. Any comments anyone ???
Hhmmm... What should I write now. I agree with my friend that a guy should be honest and be natural. That's what I mean by be himself. If that it happens that the guy try to make himself to be a guy that the girl wants, eventually, it won't happen. Unless the guy wants to lie to himself for the rest of his life, else just be natural. That's the best thing.
I realize that many looks for a partner that are good looking, rich, famous and popular and maybe a person that have everything. For me, choosing the right one is not choosing what that person have physically but what he got in him.
Someone ever told me this. Find someone that match your own character. If you are stingy, look for someone that is stingy. If you are honest and feels that honesty is number one, then find someone who thinks this way. A friend of mine ever say this to me too. If you are fire, find someone who is water. This simply means, if you are bad temper, find someone who are patient. This is very true. You can't put down a fire using fire but water. I always believe we all are born with the other person. We will always be searching for the one. Just that, we must remember not always finding the correct one, but finding the one that we feels comfortable with.
One more advice is we must learn to let go. If it is yours, it will be yours. If it is not yours, no matter what you do, it will not be yours. Let go when the person you loves don't loves you back. If she returns, she is meant for you. If she don't, then you save yourself the time you waste on the girls. Hehehe ... sound familiar right? But that's the facts.....
Ok lar, that's all about relationship. Any comments anyone ???
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2nd - Find someone that is healthy. Got lot money but dunno how to take care his/her own body, will end up spending up all the money for medicine. Den will become POOR too...so health is important too..
But nowdays look are not important, MONEY is more important liao.. So guys who are gud looking & NO MONEY, can be say "HO KUA MOH JIAK". :p