As mentioned in the earlier posting about what I learnt from the pre-marriage course, there's another point that I really disagree. Many man say women nags all the time. Repeat and repeat and repeat without stop.
Now, did anyone question what is the rootcause of women who nags? Let me show a scenario here:
Girl: Don't forget that we need to bring the books tomorrow.
Girl: Did you bring the books?
Guy: What book? No, I didn't
Girl: I thought I've reminded you to bring the books yesterday
Guy: Oh, later remind me again. I forgot
(3 hours later)
Girl: Tomorrow don't forget bring the books. Put it in your car tonight
Girl: Don't forget again
Guy: Yeah, I will. Don't be such a nagger
Ok, now... The question lies here: Why women nags? It simply because GUYS is so forgetful or tends not to remember!! Some of you would say then don't remind them. Let me show you another scenario
Guy: I've got the receipt this morning. Let's go and redeem the stuff tomorrow.
Girl: Ok, bring along the receipt in case we need it
Guy: I know. It's in my wallet
Girl: Ok, if you said so
(and tomorrow comes)
Guy: Let's go and redeem the stuff
(at the counter)
Counter Girl: I need to see the receipt.
(guy speaks to the girl)
Guy: Do you have the receipt?
Girl: I thought you say it's in your wallet
Guy: Oh, I took it out this morning. Why didn't you remind me?
BOOM!!!! Understand what I'm trying to say?
When we remind, guys say we are such a nagger. And when we don't remind, things happens, it's all because we never remind them! SO guys, before you say that your wife/fiancee/girlfriend is such a nagger, think first WHY WOMEN NAGS?
And another scenario..
Girl: Let's go Kenyalang later
Girl: Can we go Kenyalang later?
Girl: I want to go Kenyalang. Can or not go later?
Guy: Yes, how many times do you want to repeat?
Lol... Hey, GUYS being in silent doesn't mean you are giving the girls feedback! So silent is not the way to feedback. We are not god that can read your mind ok!
I think I made my point .. If you are laughing.. hope you are entertained but if you start cursing, ooppssss, did I step on somebody's tail?
Oh well, it's just some food for thoughts for the day